fix(flowpilot): fix 4 Phase 2 escalation bugs + update Tailwind version in CLAUDE.md

- Fix escalation status mismatch: hook set 'escalated' but backend returns
  'requesting_escalation'
- Fix list_sessions to include sessions picked up by Engineer B via
  escalation_package->>'picked_up_by' JSONB query
- Fix sidebar escalation icon color: was Tailwind class 'text-amber-400'
  passed to style={{color}}, now hex '#fbbf24'
- Replace window.location.reload() after ticket linking with
  onReloadSession callback to preserve session state
- Update CLAUDE.md: Tailwind CSS v3 → v4 (@tailwindcss/vite, CSS-only config)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

frontend/src/pages/FlowPilotSessionPage.tsx

@@ -179,6 +179,7 @@ export default function FlowPilotSessionPage() {
           onPause={fp.pauseSession}
           onResume={fp.resumeOwnSession}
           onRate={fp.rateSession}
+          onReloadSession={() => fp.loadSession(fp.session!.id)}
         />
       </div>
     </div>